and we say its complicated!!

Its funny how often we hear this when asked "oh are you seeing anybody?" and they say "Oh its complicated!"...the truth is that it is never complicated, but its the fear of accepting how you feel about a person!...I was surprised to discover that so many people out there are never sure of what they want...they might be insanely in love with someone but too scared to accept it...or fear of rejection can be another reason for for calling your status "complicated"....
Now you must be wondering why i am talking about something that we all already know!...the reason is simple I have a solution for this..and it is again something we all know "Communication!!"...communicate, talk to the person you think you have a complicated relation with! Don't expect them to be mind readers!..get an answer once and for all! and not just from the other person but also from your own heart!...if it was meant to be it will happen..And it is important to give yourself that chance because if you never try you will never know what you are really worth!...uncertainty is a bad place to be in...so go out there and get yourself out of the complication! :D

Tyag!

On guru poornima this year I was lucky to experience revelation! I cannot thank Uday Acharyaji enough for explaining the meaning of something as complicated as the concept of ‘Tyaga’ with such simplicity.

The discussion started off with acharyaji asking all of us present to talk about some topic that we liked or rather some topic that affected us the most!...When the pointer came to me I was clear about what I wanted to talk about the motive behind my choosing a topic like “tyaga” was to get an opportunity to learn more about it..

I started off saying that “Tyaga” is one of the most fascinating traits that a person can possess, to be able to do Tyaga one must be able to let go of things they love the most for a higher cause, and then I went on saying that at some point we all have to sacrifice something at some level, But to do it and not regret it, that is where all the difference comes, and because it is one of the most difficult things to do the person who is able to do tyaga in its true sense is considered great.

I ended my little speech with that, everyone seemed impressed with my perception of tyaga. But I was waiting for acharyaji’s approval, He was smiling and then asked a simple question “why does one do tyaga?” I said for a higher cause and to be happy. Then he went on to tell us what the concept of tyaga really meant, He explained with the example of the sacrifices a mother does for her child, “Why does a mother willingly sacrifice for her child?” he asked to that someone answered “because of love”, the next thing he asked was “what is love?”…now we had all heard and felt that word but no one could explain it!....Acharyaji with simplicity said that “Love was a feeling of oneness”, He continued “now if I do tyaga for someone I love then the thing that I sacrifice has not gone anywhere!, it is just like shifting that thing from one pocket to other “…..this was the point where everyone burst into involuntary applause!.....i was smiling more than I ever have….

The experience of learning about “tyaga” that I thought was so complicated with such simplicity was truly amazing!

some things i've been pondering upon

Recently i had to go through a little difficult time which has somewhere helped me grow and realize that being happy is a choice u make everyday...

You could either sit and cry about how fate turned all your plans upside down..or change your plan, make use of the available resources and make the best out of it...

Its important to take time out and figure yourself out because you are the only person who can change yourself... its not important what other people think about you...but self image is vital..

Love yourself and you will be shocked to find out what an amazing lover you are!

Take responsibility of the mistakes you have made...Don't blame others for the mistakes you've made..because unless you own up you will never be able to get better!

music makes me happy!

Nowadays music has become an integral part of our lives..and earphones almost a part of our body!..the reason is not just that people want to show off their fancy i-pods or phones!...but the basic reason being that music makes you happy!...
There is music that suits every mood..if you've had a bad day..or have been subjected to some terrible MU paper then try some hard rock!..I'm sure it will make you feel a lot better...and that is why we have most of the metal heads in engineering colleges!...
Music has great power to subside wasteful feelings like anger...this is something i have experienced and I think its worth sharing!...
When your favorite song comes up on the radio even if you are in a bad mood that song does bring a wide smile on your face..doesn't it?
Even science says that music heals there are various music therapies for people suffering from psychological disorders....So incorporate some quality music into your lives and stay happy!